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Is this therapy?
No. Peer support, resources, and community. If you need clinical care, the resources page has free/low-cost BC options, and crisis numbers are on every page on purpose.
Can I be anonymous?
Yes — pseudonyms are the norm, not the exception. The whisper portal doesn't even take an account. No real names anywhere; don't share yours if you don't want to.
What's a clowder?
The actual term for a group of cats — and our word for camaraderie pods of 3–5, sorted by age band, marital status, and similar struggles. Each pod gets a private sub-forum.
Is the club explicit?
No. the Den Hub is candid about sex but doesn't host adult content. That lives on Kitten's OnlyFans, in a separate, age-gated space. Deliberate split.
Why is a sex worker hosting a men's mental health club?
Because Kitten has spent years in rooms where men confess what they can't say anywhere else — and because sex work is one of the few places many men find touch, patience, and relief. The injustice is the world handing men none of that. The correction is community. Here's our thinking: The Cathouse den.
Who can join?
Men 18+, anywhere in Canada really — but events and resources skew BC. Partners of members aren't members themselves; they have their own public space at the Partner Nook.
Do mods read everything?
Mods can access logs and remove content — that's the moderation back door, and it's audited: every mod action is logged to a tamper-evident chain you can inspect in the Den Hub lobby. Automated filters flag crisis language instantly with resource cards.
What happens if I say I want to die?
An on-screen crisis card appears immediately and the message is flagged for a moderator to check on you gently. You'll never be banned for struggling. 988 is always one tap away.
Video library — what's in it?
Discussion videos per den topic plus the "Kitten Answers" series built from whispers. Each video has a live chatroom with slow-mode. Members only.
Events without Kitten?
Yes — by design. Members organize their own BC meetups (coffee prowls, climbing, poker nights). Public venues, no pressure, house safety checklist. Kitten stays home.

Ask and you shall receive. You deserve it.

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